sabtu ahad pegi kursus kahwin kat lppkn......alhamdullillah, dh settle satu benda....
on our way back abang asked, from the two days spent, what have i learned from the lectures, apart from the endless double meaning jokes from the lecturers.....hehehe.....well i guess what i realized the most is that now both of us are entering a new phase in our lives.....where for most of the times, the word "I" will be replaced with the word "WE"......to ensure your marriage's happiness and well-being, the key word is "COMMUNICATION".......you have to communicate between yourselves, of course in order for the communication process to be successful, you have to ensure the purpose of the communication process i.e. the message, you have to use the right communication channel, you have to ensure that there is no disturbances during the process, then only you can be almost certain that the transmission from the sender to the recipient is successful....i said almost because sometimes the message was sent successfully but recipient's perception deviates from what you intended in the first place......pheww, rasa mcm blaja networking balik hehehee......kak di asked how i feel now that the wedding date is getting nearer......well it is kind of overwhelming, and sometimes i feel like i'm going through the denial stage where i try not to think so much of the upcoming wedding, or where i brush aside the notion that it will change my life forever......but now i've realized that you can't run away from it.....hmmm, i think the best way to desribe my feelings right now is that i'm scared about the changes, the headaches, and the heartaches thay may come my way, but at the same time i'm excited and relieved and hopeful that i'm going to go through all that with the love of my life......(somebody say awwwwww.....the others say menyampah aku,jiwang karat.... !)