i'm avoiding somebody at work. have decided to only speak to her only when some work-related issues arise. i know some of u would say, tak baik marah/benci kat someone bila pregnant, takut anak terkenan, well, i'm not mad at her, i just can no longer stand her acid tongue and stupid remarks about others' personal matters. before i lose my temper and retaliate by giving her sarcastic remarks ( i have save some in my mind right now), better avoid the conflict by keeping mum.